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人在喝醉之後,說的是真話,還是酒瘋?
人與人之間的溝通方式真的太多太多,往往你覺得對的方式,合適的方式,卻不是對方能接受和領悟的.
酒精可以麻醉一個人, 把不能說出口的心低話全吐出來, 但是言者有心,聽者無意.處在第三者的旁人,往往是被遺忘的,被利用的.切身之痛-這種滋味是無法被形容的.長期被處置在這種位置的人,更是精神上的折磨.久而久之,造就了社會的第三類人群.
當一個人喝醉了,說出來的話,有如百箭穿心的很與痛.當一個人生氣了,說出來的話,駟不及舌.被刺殺的那一殺那是毫無感覺….慢慢的…慢慢的…血,流了出來.傷口,就會一輩子留在傷處,要消除,就只有從新活一次.
箭-穿的不是自己,是別人.但是為何,痛的是自己,而不是當事人? 錯了,錯了.
你做的一切,對於他來說,你只是在發酒瘋…你用的圆柱箭,似乎穿不了他的防火牆,卻抹殺了旁邊千千萬萬的人民.
有些人,認為自己是對的,這一輩子都會認為自己沒錯,就算你讓他認錯了,他還是不做....就算地球顛倒...也改變不了
世界上大部分男生思想非常簡單,粗心.不了接任與人之間的溝通,不是簡單的學問,時代的代溝,更加深了溝通上的共識.長輩的道理,晚輩難與接受.更何況是飽讀詩書的人們,更有自己的想法,更有自己的執作.不費點心思,不多點細心,就我行我素的認為如此一般....沒有人天生肚子裡的虫,會清楚了解對方,那只是因為平時多出的一份關懷,體會.

Albino brothers are still very very challenging handling them. They poke a lot. He looks creamy here.
tuan tuan finally lose some weight.... She's back on her treadmill and she's very very active. =D

Winter Kuching!!!!

The tree has once again came alive! This christmas is really different.
Xpax Crew's doing some cool job here. Artificial snow, bubbles, altho it all happens at this tiny little corner, but it was great, everyone taking pictures witht heir kids, frens and santa. The decoration are totally AWESOME! Drive by, take a look, and i guess this will happen again tomorrow and the night after tomorrow maybe.

Snow in Kuching. I think it's my first ;)
The Santa!

The Man behind the Snow!

More More X'mas this year

This year Christmas.......

It reminds me of Pet Society's Xmas Tree. =D

I've forgotten when was the last time i saw Xmas tree this big in our neighborhood, but this is definitely a very nice one in a very nice size.



And Finally, my size of Xmas Treesssssssss.

Lundu Trip

My last weekend getaway was a total relaxation!!!
Nice cozy bed, soft lovely beach.....pool....night view.... junks....etc etc etc....

One of the Lundu's landmarks.

another landmark. The Lundu Orchid.

The Resort
The time we reach was raining.... sky still gloomy...but superb for pool and sea activities.





Cozy restroom....


Chalet at night

Our Junk - other than the beer, the rest were like extra...we actually was having nice meal at the canteen....so in the end, we brought back a lot of junks. LOL.....

The Dinner


and breakfast