"You're too independent....." I remember someone said this to me long long time ago. At that time, i hasn't got a clue why he says so..... Now...i totally understand it, i understand the point, but i still never figure out the purpose of telling me that....and well...i felt a bit sorry, and that is the first time i feels so innocent..Innocent for being bad in a good way? I thought independent is good....should i change?? should i be more dependent? or should i pretend??? I don't know...But anyway maybe...i'm not that independent...i'm just pretending to be....

Any females that doesn't know how to park a car, how to cross a bridge, how to not cry when u cut your fingers,..... congrates, cos u'll be having someone who park ur car, who carry you on a bridge and wipe away your tears. It's lucky to be weak in certain things maybe, and dont try to learn how to. Cos some says this will scare most of the guys away. They'd feel useless, they dont know wat they could do for you, they will walk away... so might as well just pretend you dont know, and let them do the job ^^

ahh well....life sucks...

WE- Human Being, never ever satisfied with what we already have, we always asking for more, more and more/ better, better and even better.... sigh....why? why cant we just stop asking....

I've got an interesting mail yesterday, a mail that makes me wanna forward it to everyone more than ever. it's a message from George Carlin, a comedian of the 70's and 80's - could write something so very eloquent...and so very appropriate. His wife passed away recently.

The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider Freeways ,but narrower viewpoints.

We spend more, but have less, we buy more, but enjoy less.

We have bigger houses and smaller families, more conveniences, but less time.

We have more degrees but less sense, more knowledge, but less judgment, more experts, yet more problems, more medicine, but less wellness.

We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too much, and pray too seldom.

We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values.

We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.

We've learned how to make a living, but not a life.

We've added years to life not life to years.

We've been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor.

We conquered outer space but not inner space.

We've done larger things, but not better things.

We've cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul.

We've conquered the atom, but not our prejudice.

We write more, but learn less.

We plan more, but accomplish less.

We've learned to rush, but not to wait.

We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less.

These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profits and shallow relationships.

These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes.

These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill.

It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the stockroom.

A time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share this insight, or to just hit delete...

Remember; spend some time with your loved ones, because they are not going to be around forever.

Remember, say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side.

Remember, to give a warm hug to the one next to you, because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn't cost a cent.

Remember, to say, 'I love you' to your partner and your loved ones, but most of all mean it.

A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt when it comes from deep inside of you.

Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person will not be there again.

Give time to love, give time to speak!

And give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind.

AND ALWAYS REMEMBER: Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.

If you don't send this to at least 8 people....Who cares?

George Carlin